I’m wondering that by encouraging these trends, we allow for a whole generation of girls to cheat themselves of establishing some security for themselves before they marry and have kids?
I understand the whole to each his own, but then where does that philosophy go when you have a huge pool of girls who end up on your tax money, or end up being homeless, or end up being stuck in marriages they can’t get out of because they are financially dependent on the husband?
Shouldn’t we be encouraging ALL our girls to get some education, so if she needs to stand on her own, she can? So that she can learn some basic things from college, so she can function respectfully in society, even as a mother? So her kids can take her just as seriously as they take their more educated and more financially powerful father?
yes.