Maya123
February 1, 2010, 5:34pm
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PCG- How do you know that’s the be all and end all of her life?
Also do you know her circumstances why she is married at that age?
Thirdly, who are we to judge?
P.s what about those bitter 30 somethings who look down on girls who got married at a young age and belittle them and their lives just to feel a tad bit better about themselves?
everyone has issues, goes through ups and downs in life..we will never know and we don’t have the right to judge. No matter what my education level is, alhamdulillah even if I see a girl who is 16 with 5 kids I won’t judge her situation and if I see a 45 year old not married that’s nothing to do with me and I have NO RIGHT TO JUDGE.
As I said we don’t know about someones halaat, the best thing we can do is speak to people with an open mind and learn for ourselves to communicate with people from all kinds of levels and backgrounds be it ethnic origin, education level or social status. That’s what’s called being open minded, it’s a pity you seem like an educated sort of girl brought up in the west yet you still posess the ‘typical asian’ trait of judging people without knowing them. Each to their own but pretty sad me thinks.
^ Totally agree! I don’t agree with parents who get their daughter’s married right after highschool and don’t give them a chance to pursue higher education esp if the girl wants to. I also don’t agree with people who pursue education and choose to get married when they are 30-something. I believe you can obtain a good education and get married at a decent age…my two cents.