Re: you wana earn yourself or wana dependent on your spouse for money?
^ COOL. Thanks NYCGori :) The joint account and separate personal account arrangement just makes more sense to me in my head. It's convenient, it can (to a certain extent) prevent arguments over how money is spent, and it's a safety net for emergency situations......because you have something of your own stored up to fall back on. And that's a comforting thought.