"You used to be so pretty"

[hareem01]

Re: “You used to be so pretty”

@amzsonikuri

Who cares about relatives, I hear it from my own mother all the time. Before i went to uni everyone used to comment on my looks and my mum used to call me all these nice names and compliment me on my face all the time. after i went to uni i suffered severe acne and a bad facial hair problem. Both things wrecked my skin and then i was prescrived birth control pills by my doctor and gained alot of weight and really bad dark circles. I’m not looking forward to go to pakistan anytime but its ok when you hear stupid things from your own mother you are prepared for anyth8ng.

Its like all my self worth was in my looks buti dont think that is the case. I’ve become wiser as I’ve aged (I’m only 23 lol) and have been better in my religion and have developed alot of skills i didnt have before, sure people cant see that as my face is the first thing they see but really i dont care those things are for myself.

The funny thing is when i look in the mirror i dont think i look really bad, there are plenty of things i like about myself so i find it strange when people are mean.

When i have a daughter or a son i wont compliment them eccessivly, i will compliment them more on their personality and good deeds and intelligence more than their looks

I really hate bumping into old classmates though as they are always surprised lol.

@Innocent_Smile

my face was so clear..without any scare or pimple marks…a few months back for some event i got my make up done by a very well known beautician in my city…don’t know what happened
since then i m battling acne every other person who sees me can’t hold his/her tongue and utter these words…oh what happened to your face you used to be so pretty and it really hurts me

That’s pretty rude and mean of those people. That’s very brave of you if you’ve learned to ignore those people.