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'You seem like a nice girl… '
He started it all out, saying 'this'.
‘I will never be bored by you’
‘That is nice of you, you wished me on my birthday, and even my family did not do so’
‘I’d love to eat any thing you would make’
‘I got exactly the coat that you asked me to buy for myself, thank you’
‘I like the tea you got for me, thank you’
& so, he asked of me,
‘Will you marry me?’
‘You have to complete me’.
But, then he told me,
‘My mom says, you are not tall enough'
‘You look older than me, she thinks’
‘You are assertive in yourself, it scares me’
‘If I could, I would marry you, this very moment’
'I miss you, really'
‘We will be a perfect couple.’
But, then he sampled his fears and doubts in these questions, utterly doubting me and my honesty.
‘Will you be able to respect my parents?’
‘I clearly see differences in how we think… will we be able to live together happily?’
It suddenly changed to,
‘I don’t know what will happen to this proposal...’,
This matter has been discussed with my Father, my Mother has reservations about you.'
'I have been clearly told, this marriage may happen but we will develop differences quickly."
‘But, I don’t want to finish everything… please don’t finish everything'
‘I will always want to keep you as a close friend of mine. And, will always seek your advice’ I told this to my Mother, too’
& then, came:
‘I don’t want to be rude to you… & be the reason for any ‘illusion’ at this time’
‘Please forget everything…it’s not good to stay stuck in time’
‘Life has much to offer than getting married to a specific person’
Pardon me. Yes , true, I am a nice girl.
*And there is no a thing he can do about it.
Dushwari
*
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Subhanallah, a true mama pappa boy.
His sort the dear mama will find a "chand" from pakistan.
And one day when the illusion of perfect match made in heaven
imported from Pacland dont fit the frame any longer, his mama
will talk about you....why she judged you.
When he will have his own daughters, other men will ask themselves
same sort of idiotic questions:
Will you be able to respect my parents?
Khuda ki kudrat......
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i am very hurt. may he realize this. amen.
thanks Pathani.
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aww Dushwari…
. Keep faith. God works in mysterious ways.He knows better than us even about ourselves.
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Indeed U r a Nice Gal… Its His Loss more than Urs…
And He cannot Do anything About it…
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^
indeed, when humans do not have the courage and the ability to believe in communicating honestly face to face, of course, then only the Maker becomes the alibi.
Only the Maker knows what is inside of the hearts.
thanks, everyone. i appreciate your sincere empathy.
dushwari
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Keep your head strong and walk out of it - i know its easier said than done but that's all you should do - u deserve better - i believe in that...
make this your strength!!
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^ thanks, Fara.