You know what I find disturbing?

[Xtron]

Re: You know what I find disturbing?

@M_was_here

Guys who generalize the idea of threesomes as if EVERY SINGLE GUY has those fantasies. Do they ever think not all guys are like that? And most guys, esp. desi guys, would NEVER want to be shared with another girl and instead of jumping for joy at the chance, they’d actually be offended and would question the relationship?

I HATE when I read or hear “Oh, all guys would jump in at the chance” OR “all guys fantasize about the chance to do that”. That is absolute BS, and I speak on behalf of my SO when I say that. If someone wants to question that or call it my “innocence” or “naivety”, they are clearly the ones in the wrong and are looking to justify it. I think many of those girls which actually allow one to take place are either: a) really stupid b) enjoy the idea themselves or c) feel obligated to be okay with the idea, esp. because some guys out there make it out to be some common understood fact. =/

And of course there is the religious/cultural aspect but we aren’t going there with this. Next time a guy says any of the above lines, just smack his head. Kthanksbi.

p.s. Sorry for another inappropriate thread but I’ve been reading this from quite a few places and it drives me crazy! Just want to hear from the guys and what their thoughts on this are. Please no trolling (that’s for you Noodle Uncle).

Oye hoye..etna ghussa nahi kartai.

And by the way here is my stance. I like to admit that i might BE generalizing the desi or any other guys dislike the idea of threesome (ffm). True!. However, i would like to clarify that your fiance/boyfriend might not want to admit it this fantasy of ffm because they know..this will hurt you. Again i am only saying. Yes we can be sensitive to your feelings like that because we love and respect our wives. Again, there is always gray area.
Also, i completely agree that this idea of ffm is infact dis-respectful to your wife. There is no if or buts about it.