you help but not helped!!

[queen_24]

Re: you help but not helped!!

@Decent_6Chora

I move one. I dont help anyone with the intent of earning a right to be helped.

neither do I.. its not intentionally but unintentionally I asked from her a help..you can say.. I spoke to her when I thought Now she is the last hope.. and then when she refused.. it wasnt a good feeling..!

@redvelvet

1. Sometimes a person wants to help you out…but they may not be able to do so for various reason. Maybe the request makes them feel uncomfortable, or can potentially jeopardize a situation for them, or in the case of money…they may not have it.

2. Even if a person can’t help you out, the least they can do is to either refer you to someone (or a source) that might be helpful…OR…give encouragement/kind words. BUT…if this person…(as you said in your post) “shut you up” …that’s really disrespectful. In this case, I would remove them from my friend’s list…or…if it’s not possible to avoid them altogether…I would maintain a distance (not get too involved with them or trust them too much).

yeah not directly.. but indirectly got this reaction!! No, it wasn’t the huge one.. just wanted her to go with me to a very nearby shop..! dont want to list here the helps i did to her.. those are REAL major ones.. REAL!! i mean, asking her to go with me is such a minor thing I could ever ask from her!!

@Khalil KhaaN FaaKhta

i don’t care…i do NEKIS for the sake of Allah to please HIM!…my reward is with HIM and not with any mortals. i mean what i say!

seriously KKF, i have the same feeling..again mentioning it all happened unintentionally.. I was not in the feeling that she SHOULD be helping me because did I, when she needed the most.. it was like… I was all alone to go (specific situation) and only she was there who could have helped me out!! she was doing nothing..she was free!