You get married only once...

hareem01 · December 20, 2009, 8:40pm

Mabrook:

but kids always hav a say in this thing. do u know all ppl with kids little or older when re-marries they ask their kids opinions. they need to calm kids b4 they remarry coz it involves them too.
And wat if that step mother turns out to b really nice. we hav no guarantees in life, right?

When my dad passed away many yrs ago my mom was still very young. i was the first one to tell her" if in life u ever needed to re-marry i’ll always be on ur side" and she was so mad at me" how can u even say or think this" i said" i don’t mean u hav to but if u wish to it will be OK coz our father will still be in our memories and i don’t wanna see u alone after we all move out" Then when someone taunted me “daikho tumhari maan kaisay bachon k asray pe pari hai” my heart went out and i cried to Allah and he just listened. Now my mom is re-married and we all r O.K with it. all siblings even our partners supported it.

Good to know that Mabrook.

May be i’m not concentrating on this world.

MixedBeauty · December 20, 2009, 8:41pm

Mabrook:

but kids always hav a say in this thing. do u know all ppl with kids little or older when re-marries they ask their kids opinions. they need to calm kids b4 they remarry coz it involves them too.
And wat if that step mother turns out to b really nice. we hav no guarantees in life, right?

When my dad passed away many yrs ago my mom was still very young. i was the first one to tell her" if in life u ever needed to re-marry i’ll always be on ur side" and she was so mad at me" how can u even say or think this" i said" i don’t mean u hav to but if u wish to it will be OK coz our father will still be in our memories and i don’t wanna see u alone after we all move out" Then when someone taunted me “daikho tumhari maan kaisay bachon k asray pe pari hai” my heart went out and i cried to Allah and he just listened. Now my mom is re-married and we all r O.K with it. all siblings even our partners supported it.

Thats so sweet, x