Re: You get married only once...
I think it is because my wife knows that I am not alone even when I am alone. It is because she feels that happiness is in me without her that she feels it acceptable to require this from me.
Hareem01 has no sympathy for me, nor do ask it from her, nor do I need it from her, rather I am enraged with sympathy aimed my way. On the same token she is a very possessive person. She wants no other mother for her kids and likewise she wants no other woman for her man. It may be selfish but to me it is precious because I am wanted by her to that degree ... it makes feel as though it is a duty that I owe her to repay her selfish devotion to me.