You desi women and household chores

This is one question that makes me scratch my head everytime I read it (someone needs to answer it before i go bald :frowning: )

I don’t understand why some women think its zulam on them to do household chores? why do they take it as an insult if they have to take care of just the kitchen?
And I’m talking about women who don’t work and have nothing productive to do.
And if these women think it’s justified to not to do anything, why do they find it wrong when a man stays at home all day and does nothing and lives on someone else’s money?

In another thread, women were justifying divorcing a man if he loses job and does not try hard to get another one. Why shouldn’t this rule be applied to women?

P.S. to those faarigh women who don’t do anything, please don’t take it personally :slight_smile: