Re: "you cant do that with your wife"
^ Wow...loads of hate for pakistani guys and stop using the word "paki".... it has derogatory connotations. Khair, from what I know, a husband has the right to fulfill his sexual desires/fantasies with his wife as long as they don't include something perverted like making her watch porn. I think that as long as its within reasonable bounds, he is entitled to it. Who else should a guy turn to for fulfulling his sexual desires/fantasies.... professional girls ?
Having said that, I believe that love, romance and intimacy is way too much important, I mean we are not animals :) Waise, I am not sure how do pakistani girls feel about intimacy ? I hope the feeling's mutual.