We are unique.. we mean something.. there is no one else like us... we are defined by our own abilities... we are our identity
I think that's how we see ourselves.. we see all the other things as secondary..... the first thing we think of when we think of ourselves is just ourselves
Most will probably agree.. but some will disagree... and to those I'd say you have prob gone through what I am going to say
I always thought relationships didn't matter.. that we are loved and cared for because of who we are.. but it isn't so... it might be cuz we are someone's child.. or someone's sibling... or if we are successful then its cuz we have money or fame... and those who don't have money or fame.. have their parents and siblings..
and if you go and find someone special.. to think that'll change things.. then you will be you to that person.. if you are lucky, that person didn't love you cuz of your parents or siblings or sucess.. that person loved you for you and nothing else........... but you will always be the second one... you will not be the first priority.. .. you will always be in the shadow of someone else...... people can complain about that.. but i guess one can't cuz you didn't come into that person's life before others.. so it takes the right to complain away from you, doesn't it
Is that it? will we always be under the shadow of someone else? if this is how you truely feel.. how will u change that? how can you change that really? cuz to change it means you gotta change how others think.. and that's not possible.. how can move outta someone's shadow and be looked upon as just yourself? how can you be important to someone else, more than anyone else, just because of yourself and nothing else
The one who truly loves you will love you for you. But before that, you have to know who you are. Your priorities, your goals, your aspirations in life, your likes and dislikes, your taste in clothing...even your allergies make up who you are. Dont allow someone else to take over your life, give up your personality and allow them to keep you in their shadow.
Be you...the best you can be...and never ever lose yourself in a relationship.