So my husband tells me and I honestly believe him that I am his 2nd love
His first love is football and the dude dreams, breathes, eats, thinks and prays football.. His day revolves around when he can go play football and spends his exercise time with football related exercises
Should I be annoyed or grateful of his 1st love ?
I do get a tad jealous of a “football” as he is earnestly tells me how football came into his life before I ever did and will be no. 1 until kids..then his love of football will be transferred to his sons and daughters
Start dressing like a football and smelling like a football. Start expressing your love for football to him. Say how you have a crush on a certain footballer... sit back and watch how fast he ditches his love for football.
Find a new love. A passion and obsession of your own. Of course, obsession is not balanced, is not healthy. Hmmn. Bad advice. Ok, how about you put a football on your side of the bed and sleep on the sofa for a while. See if he notices. If he doesn't then it's time for talaaq, on the basis of zina ;)
icile.. exactly which is why I should shut up and put up :)
I am trying to find a 1st love and have told him that one we have a child.. he or she will take the 1st love and he'll know how it feels to be no 1.. but I am just joking.. I think he will be always be no 1 even if it is joint first ..
I believe a guy's first love is always his mother and i have made peace with it even though i am not married yet :p. And to be honest, i respect that alot because i believe the bond you share with your parents is very special and there is no reason to feel jealous for it.
love for mother is completely different that love for wife
thats why you can love both and still survive
I believe a guy's first love is always his mother and i have made peace with it even though i am not married yet :p. And to be honest, i respect that alot because i believe the bond you share with your parents is very special and there is no reason to feel jealous for it.
Mothers love can't even be given a position, I love the relationship he has with his mother, respectful, tactile, fun loving and I don't ever feel intimidated by his relationship. If anything it gives me confidence on how he expects me and him to bring up our kids when the time comes..
I think he is sad. I can understand that you can be passionate about a sport or a hobby but to say that your wife comes 2nd to the hobby in terms of love is sad.
