Re: yeh wali ya woh wali wife ?
try not to hurt anyone in the situation you’re in. Its really important to keep our parents happy…so we should explain things to them…if they dont understand us maybe get some scholar imam to talk to ur parents (if you’re really that serious about marrying this girl)…if parents still dont agree, I dont think u should go against their wishes…wait for a while maybe their thinking will change…but never hurt ur parents… they worked so hard to bring you up, give you all the things u need, do anything they can to make u happy, help u when u need it and most importantly bring u up when u were totally helpless. after all they’ve done for you, i think its unfair to pay them back by getting married to some1 they totally disagree with. there should be compromises on both sides.