Re: Year 2016 resolutions..
Good for you, you do seem like a very smart young lady. Between going to my therapist and attending a hundred self development courses I have become kind of a psychologist myself. They say goals have to be S.M.A.R.T so essentially they have to be time oriented and need to be reexamined.
I would love to hear an example of relationship goal that you succeeded in? I have been very successful in my goals with my children but with my wife the only way we have a great relationship is to not expect anything from her and just picking the slack. In the end I figured that someones love is worth a lot more than just pitching in a lot more than your share.