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why cant any1 forget their 1st love?

for example: if the 1st love has gotton married…moved on…etc etc

if they cant forget the 1st love then how can they fall in love again?:confused:

and wen they do fall in love again why do they keep comparing their current b/f or

g/f to their 1st love?:confused:

no one likes being compared to their b/f or g/f 1st love :teary1:especially if the b/f or g/f ur

with now …they r with u…and u knw that u r their 1st love but he/she is not ur

1st love…why do men and women do this?:teary3:

are they trying to prove smething?

plz sme1 help me out here…:help: :help: :help:

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Its just one of those things! There is no way of explaining why!!!!!!

People will always remember their first love and compare their current partner with them.

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but if u compare ur current “love” with ur ur 1st love arent u kind of putting ur b/f or

g/f down at the same time?:confused:

and this makes them feel so low…:frowning:

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If someone is comparing you to their ex, then they obviously aren't over them and still have unresolved issues to deal with. I do believe that it is possible to love and then love again ... but that can only happen when you let go of the past, move on and accept that it is over.

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If you are getting compared dump his or her butt. They are on the rebound.

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hey this thread is definetly not abt me…

its just that i hve seen this happen so many times and i just cant help thinking

why?

and i can never find an answer no matter how much this scenrio comes up…:blush:

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a very very nice question.. put in a very very confusing manner.. i just got lost in the 1st love and g/f b/f confusion.... neways...

wounds heal and are forgotten.. bitter/sweet memories arent.

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ya good question....i really don't know either and would like to know why that happens.

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God help you if you fall in love....
Falling in love is dangerous. I think it's worse than sleeping around. Not to say the latter isn't wrong, rather both have not-so-good consequences...

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the first times of everything are special, coz u r so naive, u dont know what to expect, the intensity with which the emotions take over u is inexpliciable.. then everything is more or less predictible..

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^^ far enough i agree with u there…but if u move on and get another b/f or g/f and for them u r there 1st love why do u destroy there hopes and love that they have for u by putting them down and comparing them to ur ex-g/f or b/f?:rolleyes:

:confused:

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But isn’t it natural to compare? :o

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Good memories stay with you. Not necessarily you should compare your previous relationship with your current ones instead make such good memories that your current relationship will not allow you to think of old ones!!

hmmm hope that makes sense.... lol

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It is not hard to forget your first "love", especially when he/she marries and starts his/her new life. I used quotes for love because it wasn't love if you got over it and moved on to marry someone else. So yes, it is hard but not impossible.

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ther is nothing more exhilerating, exciting and imature as your first love. And if things are over and you two are apart, it hurts the most too lolz. How can you so easily forget that?

But yeah you should try your best to not judge the person you have now with your first love. Because it might be that person's first time as well. you have to care about their feelings too, not just yours.