Re: Y DONT MEN CRY???
Well, they do cry, not all but some. Majority are raised in a way that they learn to control their soft-side and not cry. I have seen some guys cry with tears. Tears are just an expression of deep sadness or pain (or even joy at times) inside and it’s perfectly normal and healthy to express yourself.
I had mentioned a hadith in one of the threads here earlier where Prophet Muhammad :saw: said, he loves Yemni men, for their hearts are so brittle, they can weep easily. He :saw: also said, that he loves women and children, since their hearts are so pure and soft that they express themselves without being ashamed to cry.
So nothing wrong in it. It’s just that men are supposed to act so strong physically as well as emotionally, that they learn not to express that side. I know a female friend who is hardly 19 but she’s so tough, nothing brings tears to her, yet she’s a kind heart, animal and children lover. But she said, her dad taught her since she was a child that he hates women who cry so he doens’t want to see her cry. Training!