^ you never know about time....prolly your signature also gets the same level as we see shakespeare today. (trust me there are several things i get to see during my visual cultural coarse only cuz of "jisay ALLAH cheyee usay kon chakhay")
but those he/she is directly affecting your life? how come ppl can live with both the realizations?
my philosophy is very simple, either you can tell someone like it is or you can not, if u can not then that person is not a friend.
so if it is a friend, tell em like it is, if it is not a friend, why worry and let them impact your life.
lastly, its not all black and white, someone can be a nice person and still be disliked by some people, or can be nice in some aspects and not so nice in others, or people's perceptions can be incorrect due to their own biases.
I dont know what samad is doing.
as i said, if u cant tell someone something then that means they were not really your friend, i did not say that they dont have a right to be upset, it means u feel comfortable telling them like it is.
but the question is, do u think samad is your friend? how well do you know him.
^ i used the word which i dont even know the meaning of...."friendship" :(
mera nahi khial he is mine..as you can see how is defaming me in voice gallery, but then he questions here my "mazaq urana, and maza kerna"...but yeah i often give my honest opinions to him. (as i help almost anyone). but again i still dont even know what frndship is about.
this kinda behavior in the past few days i am constantly facing...first IK, then three ppl in my practical surroundings, then rj uncle, n then samad.
logoon nay to phele he in sub ko chora howa hai. no one wana "khapa" their damag with them (trust me i also dont want to)...but then i am searching for some solution.
ps. i strongly encourage u to visit Voice gallery...n see the thread (also the deleted post) "Sup...dill ki bharas nikalo"
if u are in college and you dont know the meaning of the word friendship, then your education is not complete.
as far as people, u ahve to live with the fact that there are people you will not see eye to eye with or are too different to be pals with, and there are people you will not understand.
as far as searching for solution, why do u thnk u need to find a solution? have they asked you for it? is the solution u trying to change them or you adjusting how you react.
spend your time in a more meaningful and constructive manner.
i am not in voice gallery because my computer sound card is messed up, so cant don much, if there is an issue that u have with samad there send a PM to azkar, but make sure it is a real issue, chaudhry saab is very fair but he hates his time being wasted.
sir path of knowledge is a never ending path. i pose this concern here, not for some hype, but for my own understanding purposes. but i appologize if samad is being offended.
samad nay jo kuch khena tha wo to khe deya...na to main koe ayat layee thee or na he hadith...still i am an alim-e-deen :( (phir hum apni qoum ki jhaliat per rotain hain k "what kind of leaders we have")
it is obvious that many of us really dont care about several things, until and unless we are not indirectly involve in it.
me learning how to react in that specific frame wont really gonna make any difference...as pakistan ki 16 crore awam yahi ker rahi hai. asss pass golian bhi chal parain to kuch fiker nahi.
i am sure there is another definitive solution exist. thank you for your time.
ps. i m not filing any complaint...cuz kisi nay seekhana phir bhi kuch nahi hai. (as main already bhut kuch suun chuki hoon)
u start a thread about my signature, and then start posting your issues with a member of the team.I would have preferred if you had reached out to me via PM, been more concise, noted specifically what the issue was and then let me address it.
I cant help your deal with imran Khan, nor in your pactical surroundings, I cant deal with qaum's jahalat, nor people being apathetic towards bullets, but if there is an issue with a team member beyond that of not being able to get along. I would need to know what the issue is rather than being told to go look at some thread and draw my own conclusions.
a definitive solution may exist if the issue has been specifically outlined. what problem are you trying to solve?
artist's mind are above the average mind. we interpret loads of things at once. so i did get the idea that you took my initial post differently.
but there is a strong patternt exist between ur signature n me cognitions, so that is why i posed the question with a series of questions.
i thank u for ur humble opinions.
ps. u may delete the thread as i got my answer.
I did not take your initial post in any way. You asked a question, I answered it and then you start getting all Socrates and bill gates and olds eighty eights on me.
Artists above act minds may have the luxury to look at a simple post in 29 diff ways but for someone who works an avg of 10-12 hrs a day with 2 kids at home, posts on GS are not critical Nuff to really look beyond what is being stated.