X-husband Dilemma

[Reha]

Re: X-husband Dilemma

@Zafra

One assumes he has visitation rights. No where is it stated he does have them. He could just be showing up randomly without legal cover as well. There is no evidence or statement to suggest there is any legal agreement. If there is please point it out.

This is also rich coming from a bunch of women whose first reaction was to blame the Pakistani husband because all they knew was he was Pakistani so he should be jealous automatically.

I also find it interesting that you assume I have no real life experiences in the matter. Odd consider my rather vicious response to the notion of a man beating his wife. I thought that would be a dead give away. But then again chickens clucking in a hen house don’t know much about the farm.

Also if you look it up on average men who abuse their wives are 30 to 35% more like to abuse their kids.

Oh yeah…that sounds really believable. The ex husband is showing up randomly at the ex wife’s house and the current husband hasn’t bothered to call the police yet or have him arrested yet. That’s funny considering he’s concerned for the safety of his home and family, no? Yes, I can see your logic there.

Your personal experiences are your business. And If you did have any experience in the matter at hand, your response would have been more balanced and knowledgable.

ONCE AGAIN, facts are NOT opinion. I realize you’re looking for a place to vent but please don’t attack people for separating the two concepts. They are not the same.

You’re assuming we’re supporting an abusive ex-husband who might potentially abuse his daughter. That is **WRONG **(please read this again…WRONG…once more for good measure…WRONG).

You’re living in America - you have choices. You don’t like the color of someone’s shirt? Awesome. You never have to lay eyes on them again. If the wife was indeed concerned about her daughter’s safety, visitation would not be a question, this thread would not be here, your blood pressure would have been fine. But safety/visitation is not the question. Its the mere location of where the exchange will take place…which again is weird to me. If safety is really the issue here, mommy would have made sure he couldn’t come near her daughter.

Furthermore, a “protective” husband would want to be present but the current husband wants not only to have nothing to do with the visitation, he is also saying he doesn’t know if he can handle this situation at all.

I don’t think that’s fair to the mother.