X-husband Dilemma

[Reha]

Re: X-husband Dilemma

@Zafra

Then you are essentially saying the man who beat the mother and abused her should have the right to see a child who he abandoned 8 years ago. If that is your view that is your view. He gave his “right” to see his kid when he left the mother and kid abandoned 8 years ago.

Of course you would just assume the man who raised his hand at his wife would never do so with the kid? Nah he would just be coo-coo if he did so.

I am not sure why this is not registering here.

I am talking about the facts…not my views. My views nor YOUR views actually matter here or are important. Your opinion on my opinion is again…irrelevant. The courts will decide according to the law of the land…please don’t expect a phone call from the judge asking for your views. Ain’t gonna happen.

He has legally NOT given up his right to see his kid…that’s just how it is. We can poo-poo about it all we want but that’s how it is. If I married a man with kids and then AFTER I marry him, I tell him “what’s with your ex always trying to see her kids all the time”…who’s the crazy one here? I would marry him with the understanding that a kids need their parents.

One more thing. The man was abusive with his wife and she left him. I am glad she did. No one deserves that kind of life. BUT divorcing someone does not mean you’re also divorcing your kids. His child is his responsibility. His daughter has a right to her father’s attention, support and care.