re: X-husband Dilemma
Children being picked up at the residence of an ex-husband or ex-wife when the two share custody is a very common thing in the U.S. If the legal custody agreement states that the biological father will pick up the child from the child’s residence, then preventing him from doing so violates a court order. Besides, what about the wife? Isn’t it her home too? Doesn’t she have any say in what goes in the house?
Unless the woman hid the fact that she has a daughter with her ex-husband and shares custody, the Pakistani man knew exactly what he was getting into when he married her. If he is not willing to assist the little girl in maintaining a positive relationship with her biological father…who btw clearly wants to be a part of his daughter’s life…then he should not have married a woman with a child.
From what OP has written, I believe the Pakistani husband is doing this solely b/c of his ego. And for him to put his ego first instead of thinking of what’s best for a child is beyond pathetic.
And btw, since you clearly don’t know what the term “dead beat dad” refer to…allow me to educate you. “Dead beat dad” refers to a dad who is negligent in his parenting responsibilities. The biological dad in this case clearly wants remain a part of his daughter’s life and do what he can to see her…OP didn’t write anything the even hints at him being a bad guy or a bad father. So based on the info. provided so far…the guy is actually the opposite of a dead beat dad.