the way ur parents raised u?
personally think i am pretty sure i’ll end up being like my mom.. but there r certain things that i wud definetly not do with my kids or atleast try to. will it be possible though?
My answer to your question is, NO. I will not raise my children as my parents raised me up.
Dont ask me the details or reasons.
yes & No ,some of the things i adopted from my parentes were really good , i will sure raise my kids like them , specially like my aabu who have always been a friend for us , aamie zara sakhti kartiN theeN laken aabu was very friendly with us , we did share every thing with him so i wanna be friendly with my kids just like him .our bhi bhoat se bateeN haiN , we learnt many good things , barooN ki respect is most important thing jo meiN apnay bachoN ko sekhana cchahoN gee.
I would raise my kids with many of the values and morals taught to me by my parents, however, there will be things which mght be different, given that I've been raised in a different environment.
I would definitely raise my kids the way I was raised. However, I am youngest and therefore a spoiled cow by default. So, I would make sure my kids aren't as pampered as I have always been cause in the long run it isn't very beneficial for the kids.
Would definately raise my kids the way my parents raised me. If anything, I would be stricter than they were.
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Would definately raise my kids the way my parents raised me. If anything, I would be stricter than they were.
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being strict with ur kids can accomplish certain things but i have noticed some really bad consequences in long run.
how strict is ur strictness?
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being strict with ur kids can accomplish certain things but i have noticed some really bad consequences in long run.
how strict is ur strictness?
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Not stricter in a disciplinarian sense, but being stricter in religious practice.
I was seriously impressed, for example, when I went to America a few weeks ago and stayed with my uncle and his family.... the whole family used to always pray together, something which I haven't seen done in my family for many many years....
i def would... parents have to teach their children their own limits... children need to be taught right an wrong and they need to be taught their own culture and religion and moral an values but they also need to be given the freedom to make their own mistake ...
I have been raised with some dynamite values and ethics (as most of us are, I’m sure) and I would instill these qualities in my children. However, me being a first-generation Pakistani-American, I would raise my kids to have a healthy balance of both eatern and western (as I do now) but, for some reason though, I see them tipping the scale more towards the western rather than esstern qualities. To me the concern will be to raise them properly with the best of values so that they can be competent, strong, and confident individuals with healthy identities.
never...
No...
i'm trying to be like my mother........but no .......she is the lovliest mother in this world ........ i can't compete with her
I would raise my kids to be like The Rock.
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Not stricter in a disciplinarian sense, but being stricter in religious practice.
I was seriously impressed, for example, when I went to America a few weeks ago and stayed with my uncle and his family.... the whole family used to always pray together, something which I haven't seen done in my family for many many years....
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Same goes for me, Cuz we live in gora world, the kids are naturally gonna pick up most of the things they learn from the're gora schools, so it will be up to me to make sure that they get a full religious education at home. My parents gave me the very basic teaching which was reading the Quran and Namaz, but they never actually taught me why. This was all i had to learn for my self as i grew older and started to take in interest in my religion.. If i didnt have that natural interest inside me to learn about my religion, then i thinnk i would be 80%goree rather than 80% muslim which iam now. Your probably wondering what the other 20% of me is well that is the goree in me cuz im not a perfect muslim, i wear all the gora clothes, still eat stuff with gelatine in it, still listen to bad music and watch bad movies etc etc etc.
**wud, u raise ur kid **
but i dont have one! 
Oh hell no. After watching my parents I have learned so many things that will me make a perfect parent. First of all it is to have no more than one or two kids. :)
no
I personally think that I will raise them as I was raised but there are things that I have a different approach to, it wouldn't be exactly the same but one thing is for sure, I will be more stricter than my parents.
on the whole yeah, but not quite exactly :).