What if u got to know earlier that ur spouse has serious problem like , infertlilty or diabatics or something serious …
if i,m totally in love,,, yes i,ll marry her,, and we might adopt.
If it's a love marriage and I fell in love with her but later came to find out about that problem, then yes I'll go ahead and marry her. But if it's an arranged marriage and I don't know the girl and I found out about the problem before hand, then I am afraid I would have to refuse.
no problem
Isn't it strange how if a fertility problem exists in a woman, there are better chances of knowing prior to her trying to start a family but if the same condition exists in a man, you'll not know until you are already trying to conceive......
nhgj
I will have a child with the woman to make sure that she is fertile before I marry her. To be very sure of her fertility, I might have a couple of children. Just to be on the safe side.
why not have grandkids too…just so u know she wont be giving u infertile children 
Tikhi…Kiyoon? Main no koi BachooN ka thayka liya howa hey? I don’t care what they are (fertile, infertile), I am only concerned about myself. So, your idea is no good.
[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by Madhanee: *
I will have a child with the woman to make sure that she is fertile before I marry her. To be very sure of her fertility, I might have a couple of children. Just to be on the safe side.
[/QUOTE]
just make sure they are yours..just to be on the safe side. :)
yes. there is always an option of adoption. :-)
funny i was going to start sumthin like that then i saw this thread on time... :-) ... well if i am totally in love .. i might marry him anyway... its like when u r not supposed to hav kids with each other.. u dont... sumhow i just cant still grab the concept of adoption.. its not the same thing...
i was just thinking though.. wut if u get to kno about it after getting married.. that ur partner (be it male/female) have some problems ... wut would u do then?!?! besides adoption .. would you go to the extreme of leaving the person?!?!
Nice to see that most of the ppl going for there love , me thinking the same
Not sure abt the feelings of u guys when this actually happens.
Muzna and other laides my q is same for the gals. If u got to know by any means that ur partner to be is infertile then what u do.
yes i would :)
easy said than done :) when u start to live as a couple, you get pressured from both of ur family sides and one of them(couple) end up leaving the other after getting influenced by their parents or friends or watever. Thats wat reality is, there are only few ppl who would go on extreme and stand up against the world just to be with their spouses :)
I will still marry him cuz I'd luv him and be on side and thats what I would expect from him too :)
[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by Fraudz: *
just make sure they are yours..just to be on the safe side. :)
[/QUOTE]
Fraudz....yaar read the question carefully. It is about finding out if your spouse is fertile, and not you.
hell yeah!
[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by pagaldeewani: *
easy said than done :) when u start to live as a couple, you get pressured from both of ur family sides and one of them(couple) end up leaving the other after getting influenced by their parents or friends or watever. Thats wat reality is, there are only few ppl who would go on extreme and stand up against the world just to be with their spouses :)
I will still marry him cuz I'd luv him and be on side and thats what I would expect from him too :)
[/QUOTE]
true thats wat matters if ur hubby is a man n ur wife a real woman then theres no problem..and if it is before the marriage why not tell his/her family about it?
YES I love her ill marry her no matter what .
Its extremely rare that one would be aware of their infertility prior to attempting conception!
That aside, most infertility problems can be addressed and overcome with all of the breakthroughs in medical technology. Its a difficult, emotionally trying dilemma to go through, one which can either bond a couple like nothing else or rend their relationship irreparably.
I'm one of the lucky ones - my lovely husband was so completely supportive of all of the treatments, disappointments and emotional roller-coaster rides that I went through and we're now the happy, loving parents of 3 beautiful boys. We did not know of my infertility problems prior to marriage but I like to think he would have married me anyway. The troubles we went through really bonded us like nothing else ever could have.
Iknow of a guy who got it known proir to marriage ( by chance ) He loves so much decided to marry the girl.
IMO most girls may not marry a guy having this probelm.
Also IMO a guy will not disclose his problem as a girl will do even they have a relation of love