Would you

Ever marry someone who had sex with a close friend of yours?

That would be weird.

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Phir CM ko miss ker rahi ho?

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Umm. Has he had sex with my friend? :confused:
I just know a guy who has been giving out feelers but he has slept with one of my really good friends in the past.

shudders he has a thing for desi girls. I avoid him when I can because his past with my friend creeps me out. It’s like. You know where that thing has been and that’s gross.

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no.

To me the answer to your question is a straight forward:

NO

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I think I wont marry a woman who had sex with any one but me or her ex hubby.(that sound funny if you got a dirty mind--sequence is the key here)

Once my friend hook me up with a girl who I had crush on. But she chose my shallow-ASS-show-off dude. Me and that girl became friends since she was dating my dude.
When we(girl and I) started talking as couple I realized it wasn't a good idea. So over some stupid reason I gave her up.

BTW her and my friend and her did not go whole 9 yards, just helki phulki moseeque quiet often. I still did not feel good about that.

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PCG its a no go!!!!!!!
period!!

BTW, this not marrying with a person who has done sex with your friend, is also a DESI attribute.
I dont think any american would care much about that as much as I know these ppl.

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How you suppose to find out that he/she had sex with your close friend? :konfused:. Unless your friend or the person whom your friend had it with, boasts about it, i just don’t see how you will find out about it.

Yes, i would still marry her if:

  • She has all the qualities i want in my wife
  • She regrets what she has done
  • She tells me the whole story before marriage
  • Her contacts will that person is cut off and she has no one else in her life…(well i will easily find out if something is still fishy)

I have no right to comment on/ or ask her about her past because whatever she did was in past and she was not married when she did it. So i wouldn’t really make it a big deal. I wouldn’t reject her just because of this sole reason. But i will definately keep an eye on her in future just to make sure she stays on tracks :smiley:

And beside, you can’t really expect your partner to be a virgin nowadays. As said above, there is no logical way to find out whether your partner is virgin or not, unless ofcourse he/she is damn honest and admit to it. 7 out of 10 people are not virgin and 9 out of 10 have a history, according to my stats :D. So, therefore, it is highly unlikely to find a “seedhi saadhi ladki or ladka”.

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thanks, schmuck :mad:

If you know guy had a sex before marriage with your friend then how can u marry him, its hard to swallow .

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did they use proper protective methods, pcg?

anyway.. i am already sick of threads with "should i .. can i ... would i" ..

dude's if all of us so paak-saaf .. then "soch" like this will never come to mind in first place.. so i will go with ishaz stat's 9 out 10 are not virgin and have sex before marriage. Anyway.. my point is:

i will definitley not reject any chick on the basics of what she did last summer, and i expect the same thing in return !.........

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So you are not going to marry a person who was married to your best friend once?

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Lmao the harder PCG tries, she aint getting married!

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definitely not. a little too strange for me.

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no

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No- Its to close to home. I wouldn't even date the guy, if my friend has dated him etc, its so complicated etc. SEX is a completely different story. Although I do agree with the whole 9 out of 10 people having a past and 7/10 not being virgins..
But a guy whose slept with a friend of mine ( unless it's just some girl I just know about or have meet once or twice) Its a NO.. there are many many other fish in the river/pond :) Better fish!

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It's a NO.

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I'd not marry a girl who had sex with anyone before marriage (let alone friend). Sex with consent that is. Whether he was a friend or not a friend is quite irrelevant

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NO thats a big no