Re: would you?
A girl who is raped or sexually abused , is a victim in most cases , therefore one shouldnt shy away from marrying them ...
However , when there is a genuine case like this , its best that the girl informs her future life partner of what happened in the past. To avoid any complications later on ... I am purely saying this after knowing of more then one case where , asian girl, was raped ... recovered fully and at the time of the rishta didnt tell the guy of the unfortunate incident. Because she was tired of being rejected for no fault of hers.
The husband eventually did find out and wouldnt believe her ... when eventually he believed her , he didnt believe she was a victim and treated her like dirt and eventually divorced her.
She got married again a few years back, this time she told the guy only, not his family of the rape and the first marriage and why the divorce happened. The guy was a good soul, he not only accepted the girl whole heartedly but also protects her against any nasty aunties who try to hurt her in anyway about her past.