a huge difference, yet for some reason in our society a girl with a past ( as in boyfriend and pre marital sex ) is readily accepted more than a rape victim, but we are a hypocrite race :D, but in my opinion yes there is a huge difference but then again just like girls have fantasies and dreams a guy does too. Morally speaking i should have no hesitations but honestly speaking i will have hesitations and if that makes me any less of a man then so be it :k: .