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^ sweetie time to cut ur losses.
it seems like u put in alot of effort into ur relationships, and ppl do not value that very much, this is based on ur past posts about other people in ur life as well. If u are genuinely worried about her, just pray for her, that is all u can do, because she does not seem to value u at all.... time to move on

Yes u r right. I put a lot of effort on my relationships, be it friends or family!

through the years I have lost some friends and also being an outcast in my extended family (cuz i got my cousin nikkah annulled!) it does feel lonely and then I also moved abroad after shadi...so I feel that I have lost many ppl in my life so I wanna keep those who are part of my life and value those relationships..

but I guess it needs 2 to tango...and I cant keep breathing into a dead friendship...

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Hi Chameli, i remember you.

How's life treating you of late, you been away?

Hi there. Life is good Alhamdulillah:) how are things with you?

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i know you really get hurt when you see such traits in the person you care about , but for the best of it .. you should move on with her ...

no one can fill her space or urs , but its better to ignore the issues as she would never resolve them

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Yeaaa.. as much as you like her, just take a step back.... orrrr try last resort, say we havent met up in ages how about we meet up for a chat!!! and she may remember you for who you are...

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hmm I still havent heard from her and as she isnt showing any interest, I will just it be as for now.
It hurts to realize ke dost, dost na rahe......

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Sometimes its best to let the other person realize what they have lost...otherwise they will never know your value and what you bring to the friendship.

Dont do anything anymore. No emails, phone calls, messages, etc.

See how long it takes her...

chameli420 you seem to care a lot for a girl who doesn't care much for you. either you should stop caring so much OR stop being so sensitive if you cant stop caring for her.

from your posts it seems like you are giving her a lot of importance in your life even though you are married and must be busy with your own life? get busy do something else in your life. take a course or get a job and you will forget this hurt.