Re: Would you women prefer?
Good on you for recognizing PART of the problem. The other is lack of will/self control. Still, there are good men out there.
Good men with a strong will and sincerity in commitment.
Either way, I can’t live with someone I do not respect. And I definitely can’t respect someone who enters marriage with me with the understanding of monogamy but turns away. I won’t disrespect him or malign him because yes that is his right. I will just walk away.