Re: Would you women prefer?
Agreed, BUT I would never stand to live with a woman that my husband cheated on me with…because lets be honest, the second wife will not be a widow or divorcee who my husband feels needs taking care off…like most other cases, she will be a girl he had an affair with. So on top of him cheating on me, I have to ask him marry him and come into our household?? Listen, in all honesty, I hope I never face these options and if I do, I hope I would have the strenght to walk away. I know many people will disagree with me, saying that I dont belieev in the sanctity of marriage, but after sharing a life with someone, having children ect…I deserve more than someone who wants another woman. Ive read some of the other post, and I agree with many: PrincessJOJO has it right: why do we treat our men as animals?? They are more than that..they are capable, intelligent people who who should be treated as that and expected to act as such.
So, if I had to choose, it would be the affair.