option 2…why because i cant tarnish the dignity of a woman even if she is stupid enough to volunteer for it by being his mistress. second, i dont want to be associated with someone who commits zinna. third, if ALLAH SWT has given this right then who am i??? if he can equally treat all his wives and potential kids and in-laws and take care of their needs and wants and keep up with all the drama (which i doubt anyone can do) then as i said who am I???