Would you tell the truth straight forward or what.

[Gr8Heera]

@psyah

^ behan Gr8Heera

Han apne pyaron ko rokna to chahye, lekin rukhe dil se nahien. Jitnee hikmat se hum nasiyat uney den sakhen to denahee chahya.

And … wo baat jo aapne likhee hai … that is in hadith not in the Qur’an.

If you remember the story of Hussan(RA) and Hussain(RA) the prophet Muhammad(SAW)'s grandsons, they saw an old man doing his wudu incorrectly. Now they had the same problem, they needed to correct the old mans mistake but they didn’t want the old man to suffer any humiliation. So they could not even tell any older person. They had a plan …

Hussan(RA) and Hussain(RA) approached the old man and pretended to be arguing, they asked the old man to be judge for them as Hussan(RA) was saying that Hussain(RA)'s wudu was incorrect but Hussain(RA) was saying that Hussain(RA)'s wudu was incorrect.

First Hussan(RA) did wudu and he did it perfectly the old man watched, then Hussain(RA) did the wudu and did it perfectly the old man realised that it was himself who was in error and he said “you are both doing it perfectly … but it was I who was wrong”

In this story it is clear that we should tell people about wrong things, but with some people we need to exercise a bit more wisdom than other people.

He He He…Bahan Heera.

Thanks for correcting that is in hadees. I just remmeber what the point is and where in quran or hadith I can’t remember.

Main bhi I don’t know hikmat. I try to say only once with lots of love and politeness or by my action but still ppl get mad at me. I don’t know what hikmat I could use.

Now what I did I stop talking to those ppl just salam dua talk to them politely and give mashwara what is good for them if they discuss any problem. Don’t talk to the matter that is not good or very shameful according to Islam.

My problem is I can’t see when someone is doing wrong main aik dafa zaroor bol parti hoon yay ghalat hai aisa na karo islam main mana hai aur kuch daleelain bhi deti hoon. Yay bhi naheen karti kay jis par khud amal na karoon us ko karnay kahti hoon.

Problem is I stop talking or saying anything about those stuffs but they all the time tonting me bilawajah kay qusoorwar banatay hain mujhay. What I do don’t say anything just iqnore. Now its getting on my never. Aik bayhaya insaan ulta mujhay bura bhala kahay ub main aisa kia karoon ya kia kahoon jis way wo tonting karna chor day aur us mauzoon pay kuch na kahay.

How I can deal with this. Wo kia tareeqay ikhtiar karoon ya kis tarha baat karoon kay unko samajh aa jaay?