Re: would you still marry the guy you love if he had sex with another girl ?
This thread is related to OPs other thread. Basically here’s the story OP had a boyfriend. For various reasons, the guy’s family supposedly “forced” him to marry another girl. So he got married. The sexual relationship OP is asking about here is in reference to the guy sleeping with this wife. Now the guy is in the process of divorcing that girl. He is telling OP that he never loved that girl, wants her back in his life etc. Oh, and if I remember right, OP was in touch with the guy while he was married/living with his wife.
OP made a comment in that other thread about how the guy’s parents forced him to marry that girl. I responded saying that it’s not like they held a gun to his head. And his “love” for OP didn’t stop him from having a sexual relationship with that girl (I’m pretty sure no one was in that bedroom with them forcing him to do it all). This thread is in response to these comments.
OP does not understand that the issue is not the guy having sex with his wife. The problem is him having sex with a girl who he claims he never loved, and during that time, according to him he was in love with OP. This is the character issue I was trying to point out bur clearly it was a big failure.
It is common with desis to get in bed with their spouse even if they don’t love them. There are countless examples where the husband treats his wife really bad, beats her routinely, does drugs and does not earn but every year or so they bring a child into this world.
May be in darkness they become humans after all!