Re: Would you stay with your spouse if he/she cheated on you?
I personally think that if she cheats one time, get HER and yourself some professional help. Like marriage counseling etc.
If she cheats second time, my advise is to separate yourself emotionally from her as soon as possible and move on with your life and be strong for your kids. (if u have them).
(and vise versa for men who cheats)
Re: Would you stay with your spouse if he/she cheated on you?
the question was about the cheater
the answer thus was about the cheater as well
Re: Would you stay with your spouse if he/she cheated on you?
It depends how smartly she has cheated ...
Re: Would you stay with your spouse if he/she cheated on you?
oh hell no.
ofcourse after making sure that the cheating was done with full knowledge of it being cheating...because that just shows your partner does not respect you. also you lose a large chunk of respect for a partner if they cheat on you.
and there is no point staying in a relationship where there is no respect between two people.
Re: Would you stay with your spouse if he/she cheated on you?
I would say" It was nice doing business with you, but due to the changed circumstances, I can no longer carry on doing that. Best hope for the future. Good Bye"
Re: Would you stay with your spouse if he/she cheated on you?
omg yesterday one of this school girl told me that her husband and her friends does thing behind thieir back and wife dont care cz they have no choice and the one who do care ended up with divorce and for her was normal to men to go around other women. what is wrong with desi guyssss... is its open here in usa and alot goin on in pakistan.... who can u trust..
Re: Would you stay with your spouse if he/she cheated on you?
I've been watching Maury, and they have the show about cheating wives who have a child whos father may not be the husband. so i wondered how muslims would react. would you stay with your spouse if they cheated on you? men would you stay with your wife if she cheated on you and had a child by another man? would stay with your spouse if they cheated more than one time? what would you do?
A similar situation was brought before a court in Kuwait, The man wanted out because his wife had baby with another Man.
Court ruled that the Husband has to bear the cost of raising the child since He is the legal gaurdian, and not the Man friend.
**Big Dilemma..................:( **
Re: Would you stay with your spouse if he/she cheated on you?
Ask someone what they SHOULD do is completely different to what people DO in this given situation...
I think cheating when the girl has feelings for someone else would hurt more than a simple physical transgression...that would be harder to work through and fix...
A kid would be too much for me especially if i was not made aware of the fact that i had been cheated on...to be excited about having a child only to be shown a child that looks nothing like you i wouldnt live with...This would leave an especially difficult situation if this wasnt my only child with her...
Its hard to comment cos im saying what I think i would do...just remember those you love the most can bring you the most pain...