Re: Would you say the term "Good Family" is relative?
IDK, my boys are still very young and I dont know how involved I'll be in helping them choose their mates...but when I do (lol, notice the positive/hopeful attitude here :) )...the most important thing to me will be the gal herself. There are people who have had bad childhoods and come from poor or corrupt families or bad circumstances that actually produce beautiful children. I'd never turn down a rishta based solely on the parents standing in the community. I would look for the best match in a wife for my sons and not make the potential wife pay for the sins so to speak of her elders. Foremost should always be the happiness of the couple...as opposed to how "impressive" the rishta is.