One of the chapter end discussion questions in an old psychology class was something like the following:
You are allowed only one person to spend the rest of your life with. At the start of the relationship, however, you must make the choice between loveless sex, or sexless love. What do you choose and why?
Re: Would you prefer a lifetime of loveless sex, or sexless love?
I don't think u can really have a lifetime of loveless sex, cos i wud think eventually u two wud fall in love somewhere down the line (or at least develop some feelings no?)...so even though this question seems odd, i guess i wud choose that.
Re: Would you prefer a lifetime of loveless sex, or sexless love?
love without sex = incomplete
sex without love = meaningless
or as Kahlil Gibran said:
Your reason and your passion are the rudder and the sails of your seafaring soul. If either your sails or your rudder be broken, you can but toss and drift, or else be held at a standstill in mid-seas. For reason, ruling alone, is a force confining; and passion, unattended, is a flame that burns to its own destruction. Therefore let your soul exalt your reason to the height of passion, that it may sing; And let it direct your passion with reason, that your passion may live through its own daily resurrection, and like the phoenix rise above its own ashes.
Re: Would you prefer a lifetime of loveless sex, or sexless love?
Well! Who would care about love if there were only 2 person left in a scenario. I think, love is a method to keep two of the opposite sex together for procreation purposes. Love, not related to sex, is a mean to improve upon your existing race. If there are only two people left, a sexless love or a loveless sex would mean exactly the same thing.
IT is also said, if the desirable is not available, make the available desirable.
Re: Would you prefer a lifetime of loveless sex, or sexless love?
i rather be alone!
i am with u here. I think life wouldnt be complete without either of these and it will be like a torture to either have loveless sex or sexless love. I rather be alone too!
Re: Would you prefer a lifetime of loveless sex, or sexless love?
You are allowed only one person to spend the rest of your life with. At the start of the relationship, however, you must make the choice between loveless sex, or sexless love. What do you choose and why?
depends on the person, if attraction is there, then loveless sex, cause i would love to have sex but if no attraction at all then i opt for sexless love :D