…if some gal incessantly sent emails to your hubby? Why would a gal do this? Correspond with a married man who is very evidently happy in his marriage? Isnt this a no-no?
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Depends.
You’re leaving out a of vital info.
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Who is this girl?
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How does she know your husband? How did she get his e-mail addy?
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What are the e-mails about? Is there anything sexual/romantic about them?
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Does your husband have a problem with getting her e-mails? As in, is this a case where the husband clearly told the girl to stop e-mailing him but she refuses to stop?
If the girl is some psycho pursuing a married man, after the married man made it clear to her that HE does NOT want her to contact him in any way again, then yes, I would have a huge problem with her.
However, if it’s a situation where there is a lot flirting going on in the e-mails OR it’s content I’m uncomfortable with, and if my husband doesn’t stop e-mailing her after finding out this bothers me, then I’d have a huge problem with the husband.
All the above being said, if it’s a case where the husband also doesn’t want to get any e-mails from the girl, all he has to do is get another e-mail account and/or block the girl’s e-mail addy on the current e-mail account.
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depends Mama on the nature of the e-mails. How old is this "girl" and how did your hubby and her meet.
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exchanging mails do not mean flirting!
being a woman do not mean being excluded from friendship with men, I have male friends and I hope I won’t lose their friendship once they got married.
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yes, it would definitely be a no-no, unless there’s some innocent reason for it, e.g. she’s your hubby’s partner in a project at office etc.
you say “incessantly”. that’s definitely cause for concern.
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you check your husband’s emails??
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Talk about opening a pandora's box.
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tali dono hatho se bajti hai...
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Yes, I would mind that. There have been similar situations when my husband was being pursued. He wasn't very happy about it and neither was I. Emails are not really direct contact, so just ignoring them should be enough to get the message across. It's different when someone calls you on the phone.
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I agree we do need more details…but generally speaking i guess it wud bother me but i don’t think i wud mind, cos she’s the one sending them to him…on the girl’s part, yes it is a no no…but again, we don’t know if she knows he is married…is she does, that is wrong…but unless they see each other all the time in person, it cud be harmless as this is on the net…the good thing about online is, u can block the emails and that’s the end of that…if u n him r happy, and ur not suspecting HIM then i wud just ignore her…cud be she just has crush and is playing around…wouldn’t give it too much thought 
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it is a no-no.
i would hate it if a girl sent emails to my hubby, met him, called him etc etc...again and again...
its a fact that even women in the wicked wicked west know not to mingle too much with a married man since its obvious the wife wont like it even if the mingling is meant as innocent.
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Well, i wouldnt mind, cuz i trust my husband completely. :) But i wouldnt mind either to sneak into his mail box and check what kind of e-mail she sends :-|
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well i dont care what the nature of the emails are unless of course it's work related. i wouldnt want a woman emailing my husband because MOST women by nature are evil and they like to get what they cant get easily (especially non-muslim women).
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lol sadaf…so u trust him but u dont trust her?
i can see how that makes sense…i think i would feel that way as well.
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ok well, I'd like to set the record straight here. Never ever would I read my hubby's emails (or anyone else's for that matter). Thats wrong wrong wrong. Hubby n I have no secrets from each other. Thats why I know what emails he gets. He IS a beautiful and fascinating man. Gals just love him and I cant blame them but quite frankly, he's MINE all mine!!! lol! He is always polite (well pretty polite) and would never just ignore someone who is trying to correspond. It just seems to me that there are a number of single females who find him to be irresistable (which he IS but sorry he's TAKEN). Thats my beef.
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I CANT STAND GIRLS LIKE THAT! Goshhh cant dumb-***** find men of their own? 
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I would mind!
However if the mail is a job offer or from an aunt i wouldnt mind
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well sometimes being too polite can give women the wrong idea. maybe it is a good idea to ignore her? especially if your not liking it too much.
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lol@ aunt…well u know what they say about young men and older women 
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yeah i know… many men get attracted to women and start imagining weird stuff coz they have more experience behind them
by aunt i meant my chachi, maamis and phupos 