Would you marry someone with a less profile job if you could choose someone better?

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Re: Would you marry someone with a less profile job if you could choose someone bette

@pcormac2013

This is mostly for arranged marriage setting because in love marriage it probably doesn’t matter.
So girls if you
If you had a choice of marrying someone with a better job like maybe doctor or engineer or someone in IT compared to someone artistic like a writer , artist, fashion designer to maybe architect which one would you choose all else being same ? I guess someone who has more stable job who is more logical will be wealthier and seen as better then someone with a job not as stable. Although some in seco d category can be wealthier so this hierarchy of jobs is not so clearcuty.

It affects me personally as i could have done engineering like my parents wanted to and i tried but I was not so passionate about it. Instead I did architecture which i am passionate about and a part of me wants to pursue fashion design. Also part time I have been doing ballroom dancing with my sister. Although I am an amateur I wouldn’t mind going pro.my family is full of doctors and engineers and my parents disapprove this and blame my rishta breakups on this. They don’t sympathise saying if I had beenengineer more girls would have liked me though i would have been miserable

Does it really make a difference to girls? If you liked a guy in a creative field would you still marry him evenif your parents opposed? Or if the guy was in a more junior position to uou ? And for guys here do you have career preferences for your wife same field, different field or stay at home? For me it doesnt matter as long as they’re happy although there is attraction towards someone in a more intense but different field to me. All have their quAlities like a doc or engineer husband would be stable and be useful if someone is unwell or you need help around the home. An architect husband could create the house of the wife’s dreams and a fashion designer could make the perfect lehnga, sshalwar, dress, casual outfit for the wife. Or a writer/artist husband could make the wife an inspiration or muse for his work.

how come you are putting architects and fashion designers in the category of unstable income?