Re: would you marry a guy who is not virgin
It has come to this time period in history, where it is near impossible to find a muslim virgin man. I guess women too, but I don't go looking for women, so I don't know what the ratios of virgin: nonvirgin are these days.
It's dead hard being a virgin in this time period. It is NOT easy going to sleep all alone every night when you have a real physical need, increasing age spent in education, and all this temptation around you.
So, its not surprising you're seeing fewer and fewer virgins. But even if I meet a guy who isn't virgin, if he's gloating about how much he's done or how much action he's had, I find it REALLY disrespectful - to me, and to the women he's been with, because obviously, they were only timepass for him.
And that's what I tend to stay away from. If you cannot treat other women the way you'd want your daugher or sister to be treated, then I don't want to have anything to do with you, and the sooner I find out you are THIS ghattiya, the better.
But then, that basically means like 99% of Pakistani men, so you can see where my dilemma is :)