Re: Would you marry a guy who had cheated on his ex?
We can always look at who let the guard down, did one spouse push him/her to go and find things that he/she requires from someone else? We always quick to blame others but never looked at what were the causes of spousal affair? I would recommend reading this article and there are plenty of others available from this site on infidelity and how to recover. Coping with Infidelity: Beginning (Part 1)
Re: Would you marry a guy who had cheated on his ex?
He says his ex never liked him from the start and thats why he cheated...fell in love with some girl at work. Things obviously didn't work out with her either.
And when my "friend" asked him why he waited all this time to tell her this (I think they've been together for a few months now)...he says he was waiting for her to fall in love with him.
I was like whaa...?
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To answer the question: HECK NO. Huge turn off.
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I feel like he could very well try and JUSTIFY his act of cheating and make himself sound like the victim. I feel like most guys would not admit they have cheated, they wouldn't use that terminology. But say, if you've known about a particular guy who has and now he's interested in you...well you better be cautious.
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Maybe.
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He didn't cheat on you.
On his ex.
Would you marry him?
Good question. I've heard of stories (thank God that I dont know anyone personally) where the person married to the person he/she cheated with on his/her spouse. This is exactly the question comes to my mind. How could, lets say a girl, marry a person who flirted with her while he was already married. That means the guy has no sense of loyalty.
In fact I believe in the quality of loyalty so much that the guy who disassociates himself from his parents because of his wife makes me wonder. If a guy cannot be loyal to his own mother or father, how can he be loyal to his wife in long term. That probably should be the number 1 reason why married women should never ask/expect from her hubby to leave his parents for her. She is shooting herself in the foot.
Could it be that above 2 scenarios that I painted go hand in hand in real world? Could it be that the guys who leave their wife of many years for another woman are the same guys who left their parents for the first wife.
In conclusion, I like to bring a twist to Khattichic comment of post 3#. Once a disloyal, always a disloyal
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Re: Would you marry a guy who had cheated on his ex?
No.
Cheating shows a lack of conscience, lack of caring, selfishness, greed, no fear of consequences, etc. .... these traits will never disappear even if the guy repents .... same goes for a single person who gets involved with someone who is married.
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if a cheater is not acceptable as husband prospect..
then why is it wrong if some guy doesn't accept a non-virgin woman??
once a cheater...always a cheater
once a fornicator......always a fornicator...
???
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if a cheater is not acceptable as husband prospect..
then why is it wrong if some guy doesn't accept a non-virgin woman??
once a cheater...always a cheater once a fornicator......always a fornicator...
???
There is nothing wrong with that as long he himself is virgin.
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In fact I believe in the quality of loyalty so much that the guy who disassociates himself from his parents because of his wife ....
Well what if there are kids in the picture?
Some men use kids as their excuse for leaving their parents. Now that has got to be ONE SAD SITUATION where a man has to leave his parents for his kids, becaue wife is not able to get along with anyone.
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^ oh jeez.....you mean he wants to be with the kids so he saunters off with the wifey cuz she can't get along with in-laws?
really?
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^Yeah something like that. Sad na. :(
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Never Trust a man who cheated on his x...please..!
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omg....that truly is sad Sajal.
but girls fall for it....they take the sob story with the explanations of how his ex just didn't value him and mistreated him. this type preys upon a girl's self-esteem by making her feel that she is so good for believing him, she is better than his ex, she can see the good in him and see where he was wronged in his previous relationship.
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Is he willing to give you 60k ring ? Yes :k:
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omg....that truly is sad Sajal.
but girls fall for it....they take the sob story with the explanations of how his ex just didn't value him and mistreated him. this type preys upon a girl's self-esteem by making her feel that she is so good for believing him, she is better than his ex, she can see the good in him and see where he was wronged in his previous relationship.
bechari masoom naive girls......... :(
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In my book. I'd think low of someone who committed that sin.
However, that person shouldn't be overly, punished as mistakes do happen.
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bechari masoom naive girls......... :(
your words, not mine.
such girls make their beds.
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Yes!