Re: Would you marry a girl who has had boyfriends in the past?
my husband married me even though he knew i liked someone else before..he knew cos i left my emails open...yikess.he was upset, but we were just friends then, not engaged, or anything.....he on the other hand, always liked me, i have heard it countless times from his family and friends, he only liked me since we were 15......haii.....
uh, ok.
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I would *never *even consider someone who had a 'partner' in the past... For several reasons, but the main one being that I would like to get married to a good Muslim.
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puts underware on head and sticks two pencils up his nose
Wibble.
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uh, ok.
She's not the only one.. I know plenty of guys who'd drop the requirement of no previous experience or whatever if they like the girl enough..
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nope.
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If I were a guy, I would marry a girl who had a boyfriend in the past if she had the intention to marry him, but was misled by him. Because humans made mistakes. If her niyaat was saaf, then I'd give her a chance. I think its easy to judge whether she was at fault once you get to know her.
What do you guys think about girls who have had broken engagements? Would you marry them?
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My first post on these forums and it is a question to all the guys out there. Ladies can chime in with their opinions too. Let me expand on the question. A lot of you will disagree but the truth is that most unmarried couples out there have an intimate relationship, and very rarely do they end up marrying each other. So will you guys marry a girl who has had boyfriend(s) in her past? What if you find out after the marriage that your wife has had romantic affairs in the past? Or worst, what if you find out that your wife has had intimate relationship(s) in the past?
And the same question goes out to the ladies too about their husbands' past.
I have simply no prob with that.. it was his past.. I wasn't there so he is not answerable to me for what he did then.. i just care about his present.. where I am in his life..
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it's up to the guy and what he values, if he is prudish and has to have girl that has never been in contact with a guy then he has every right, it's his life and he has to live with the girl.
imagine if he has a problem with it but still marries a girl that had an engagement broken, he'll probably make her feel like crap or disrespect her every chance he gets. rather than that, it's best he marry the type of girl he would respect.
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I don't think I'd care if he'd had past relationships, but I would be curious and expect him to openly talk about them, at least once, just because I don't think that in a relationship any topic should be off limits. And if someone's very evasive it comes across as dodgy. And obviously noone should talk about their exs all the time either.
But if he had been fully physical with someone before, my requirement would be that he get tested for STIs.
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past relationships if they were super serious might be okay. There's been a guy that I was getting to know on the basis of "we could be getting married" and it didn't work out. I didn't do anything wrong as we never went out or anything like that, and we def weren't physical. I haven't been intimate with anyone at all even in the slightest and I pray to God that I get someone in the future who also hasn't. I've had temptation but I did my best to avoid those situations and I would hope that my spouse did the same.
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She's not the only one.. I know plenty of guys who'd drop the requirement of no previous experience or whatever if they like the girl enough..
im quite amoral and non-religious, so i dont have that virginity and pakeeza aurat issue. its ok if a girl has had relationships in the past that didnt work out.
it was the way she described her story that made it seem that the other guy was like a 'spare tyre'...a secure option for her , something to fall back upon if the more attractive option (the guy she was really attracted to) didnt materialize. I just have more self respect than that.
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Yes.
I'll sacrify myself for other's sake...
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This question is more complex than it appears.
I consider some women to be poisoned and its not about the number of boyfriends or the nature of relationships....its about who the boyfriends were.
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After reading alot of peoples comments and jokes, i'd like to add sometihng.
Noodle, how did you find out about this past boyfriend-physical relationship thing?
Secondly, I understand very well that you have never had a past so you wanted someone as pure, im sure you deserve one too but life isnt what you want and need. its alot more different. so if she's faithful to you, if she loves you.. why are you bringing the past in this? By bringing past in she cant change the past but you are both spoiling what you have now.
Forgiving is difficult but you have to try, maybe talk to her... if shes guilty she surely regrets it. so tell her its okay and you can spend a weekend apart so everything settles down and you guys can move past it?
If you have kids, leave the kids at home, go for a one night vacation. enjoy and get to know each other better.
These days, almost everyone has a past.. its better you never find out your spouses past but if you do try to move on.
Noodle, please do reply.
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Naah - I'm fine with marrying a guy instead of a girl :D :p