Would You Get An Abortion If...

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Re: Would You Get An Abortion If…

@salaam2k14

I usually see families with both a little boy and a little girl…I’ve had brothers so my parents got to experience how it is to have kids of both genders and my brother and his wife have both, the most adorable little girl and a boy. What if your husband is totally against IVF or such procedures where you might get to pick. Life does not seem fair if a person can’t experience raising both.

I don’t understand what you mean by this.

I don’t know what you mean by this. I’m saying two of each gender. If I had a boy the first time, it would be cool to have a girl the second time and vice versa. More than two kids seems like too much for some people to handle.

sidenote: i’m not pregnant nor am I in a relationship. i just wanted opinions of people here regarding this sensitive issue.

One girl and one boy sounds ideal family structure, it looks good to have both gender. According to assumption that husband is against to IVF means that husband also mature and understand what is in his *naseeb *or destiny.

These thoughts of yours are temporary. Either girl or boy, what matter most is healthy baby. I am sure rest of the members will also agree on healthy baby and that is actually an ideal family.

Stop thinking about bachy do hi achay, your are not writer of your life. Though you can select gender of your baby by all means of modern medical science but that is too much. If you start thinking like that yes I have two baby girl and this is what my creator wants me to up bring, your life would be easy.

What sid means in his comments that babies are innocent whatever gender, he would adopt. I really like his attitude.