Re: would you feel uncomfortable if...
no it doesn't happen on regular basis...only 3 times so far in my presence. in my absence i dunno. but it disturbs me. i may not mind if someone's extremely needy n there's no one around but i mind it even for dada, dadi coz older grandchildren n kids r there n not said anything. the only reason i believe is coz mine r too timid to say No. they r the shareef bachchas that r easily pressurized. today i talked to my son n told him if it ever happens again say to them "ask ..... bhai. i'm weak n get tired easily. he's stronger". i'll tell my daughter same thing now if u can't say no just say i'm soo tired after giving them one or two hands n start crying. lets see if they can understand n actually act on it.