Would you date a black person?

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Re: Would you date a black person?

they are cool,

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Spot on brother,

There are none as us

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beautiful answer.

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Date, Yes....They can be sooo much more fun than white guys! I love the care free attitude,how chilled out they can be, the dreadlocks,braids,dark skin, and how they can be so tall and masculine. (Bear in mind I am referring to some of them,not all! ). They can be so friendly :)

Black is totally my type.

Marry? No....My family would disown me.

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experience speaks :5:

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Perhaps!

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Who is more attractive

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^Great comparison lol

More realistic would have been Brad Pitt and Tyson Beckford

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They were two well known celebrities from each race. 'Snoopdog' was the black guy because of the dog like dreadlocks and braids he supported that an above poster had commented that they liked.

Regardless however, it seems the OP and some odd clones have decided that black men are the best and that is who they would be going for. It would therefore be not worth trying to show them anything otherwise. It would seem futile to inform them that attractive, inteligent, educated, good charactered, respected pakistani exist.
I would state a couple of facts about black people for this person to consider.

  • In Global GDP and HDI indexes the black nations are ranked at the bottom.
  • Western country crime is predominatnly caused by Black people.
  • In the Strongest worlds military powers White Christian, Muslim, Asian countries come at the top. Black nations are at the bottom.

So in the light of the above facts I would like to ask the orginal poster that if 'Black people' are the best then why are they at the bottom of most things.
What were they doing in the last 1000 years while the world was working at progressing thier societies their economies and thier militaries.
What were they doing? I suppose they were being 'cool' and they were being 'chilled'.
Moreover, does the original poster forget or choose to overlook the qualities and the superiorities of her own nation. Pakistan history is full of acts that raise the heads pakistanies heads in pride. The might of the pakistan army in the face of weak odds against neighbouring nations has been proven time and time again throughout history. Maybe it is the very might of these brave and sacrificing men that each of us are present as we are now.
In comparison, I would like to ask a question about the 'masculinity' of Black men. Where did thier masculinity go when minute numbers of american soldiers were coming over from Usa and beating and kidnapping millions of black men from thier own homes in Africa in and taking them to usa for slavery in the slavery era.

I can take over the oath over the koran that this is a statement that a black young man had once spoken to me during an informal chat:
'You pakistanis have come into the west and started your businesses and progressed in your education, your jobs and your families. We blacks will probably catch in maybe somthing like in a 1000 years time. Then he laughed and uttered all we think about is porn and sex'.

Furthermore with respect to religion, while it is stated in the authentic hadith that 'a girl cannot be forced into a marriage', it is also stated in the an authentic hadith that 'a nikah of a girl without her wali's approval (father or guardian) is invalid'.
The O.P seems to have a likness to non pakistani cultural but western (more specifically black) values. Ofcourse it is her personal choice that whether she prefers to go with her culture or another.
However, with the most confidence i would assure the O.P, that she would be left on the loosing side.
Pakistanis give our life, heart and soul in nurturing and protecting and raising our family members. We have our sense of identity which we also cherish and like to preserve.
If girl wishes to be disgrateful for all that her her family has done for her by marrying against thier will, and therefore in effect disowning her family. Then she will be disowned.

On a personally level. I live in a western society and i have a variety of friends. I have much respect and love for White people due to the much level of goods things that they have done for mine and for all other outer ethnical communities.
However, i would only ever marry my daughter or sister to a black male in some exceptional circumstance.
I have great love for all of those that good to others. However love or respect can be shown in many ways and it does not have to neeceserily mean giving away daughters, family, or sense of identity.

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Never felt attracted to one, but if our personalities clicked with sufficient amounts of loyalty and maturity, I wouldn't have seen a reason as to why not.
But that would be after he got rid of the braids. As for a good dressing sense, that goes for a man of any race.

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O.P it is clear that you are churning out multiple id.s in order to fool others into your fascination for black men.

Go ahead and marry one. Nobody cares.

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^ I don't see OP anywhere that said she wanted to date a black guy....in fact out of everyone here, only one has openly admitted that they did.

Also, liking someone of another race/ethnicity doesn't mean you hate your own race/culture.

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You obviously do judging by post #49](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=49)

Hate to break it to you but you can’t really control who your daughter or sister marry either..

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hein? whats that supposed to mean?

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I know what i was said.

And I hate to break it to you. But i can control who my sister marries.

A guardian has the control of his daughter or sister.
A wise family will take the opinion of each family member into account before deciding on a marriage.
Myself and my sister have a good understanding. Mashallah
Myself and my father have a good understanding. Mashallah
She may reject anyone we may happen to choose, but she would also not marry anyone without our consent.

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The main takeaway - some races are at the top of a pole. And some at the bottom. Anything else?

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The first guy looks disgusting and rich, and somewhat gay.
***The second guy looks disgusting and homeless and like a sexual deviant.
Hope I answered your question Mitty. :stuck_out_tongue:

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Considering where Pakistanis and Bangladeshis are according to UK statistics really don't think we're in any position to look down on them..

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this is how it works in our family as well.

we girls have been given all freedom to refuse rishtas but we will not ever marry anyone if he parents are against. and neither my parents will let us marry if they are not 100% satisfied with our choices for x y and z reasons.

so i also beleive the guardian do have a control on who the daughters/sons marry.

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if dating and being with a non pakistani wasnt an issue for me, i would still not date an african person. i have yet to come accross a non flirty african guy. i havent met any attractive africans personalities yet. and if wanted to go by the look, i will prefer the mixed race one...an african and chineese mix would be WOW .