Would you consider this controlling behavior? Is this love? I want to leave so badly.

[Sara516]

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@ABC1111

Where will you go after getting a divorce? I say stick with him. Even if he kills you, you will be Shaheed . A perfect recipe for Paradise. What else do you want lady?

Are you trolling? If yes–that’s in extremely poor taste.

If not, then would you advise your sister or daughter to stay in that kind of situation? If a woman in your famliy had the misfortune of marrying a psycho, should they be killed?

@bao_bihari

Read OP completely and skimmed through the 3 pages.

It was not a good read, i feel sorry for you.

But this is only one side of the story , so i do not think we should ask you to destroy your home but merely reading your side of the story. It happens that when one is in emotional stress then normal /mediocre issue also start looking major big issues.

So please consider discussing this with some one who know you well, who is sincere and mature enough to give you proper advice. I am by no mean am supporting your husband, just trying to save a home.

May ALLAH ease your sufferings and give you best reward for this.

Waisay

Will you remarry again? no? may look good now but not the best decision.
Yes? are you sure you will get a better man?why not try living in separate home? may be your husband is influenced by his parents?

Yes, we need to know what she did in order to deserve getting strangled right?

What exactly you think other side of teh story can be? What she did to deserve physical/mental abuse?

You complain about how women in life1 are “so angry”…well…maybe it’s posts like this that advise women to stay in horrific situations because, “ghar nahi torna chaiye”…though since you see all of us guppans as “angry” I bet you will ignore it or take it the wrong way.