Re: Would you consider this controlling behavior? Is this love? I want to leave so ba
wow. my heart goes out to you. i hope Allah guides your husband and that your heart is put to peace soon.
the part above is what terrified me. his attitude towards something you have no control over is shocking.
it’ll be gd if he goes for counseling. and honestly, i feel as if you are being stifled, suffocated. you have a good job mashallah, good parents- you deserve a better spouse. on the night of your wedding he gave you a tanaa- what kind of man is he? saying mean stuff to you in bed- that’s something i cannot even imagine.
i may not be giving the best advice- but i feel that you should leave this man soon if he doesnt change. it’s been 7 long years. you must be very disturbed by all these happenings. if he ‘loves’ you because of your money, you should move on.