I've heard several stories of where a couple that is having trouble concieving, due to the female partner , wanting to have a third person in the marriage to have kids. Usually the line goes:
*** " He loves his wife and because they can't have children she has permitted him to marry again "***
Now I know in Islam a Man is allowed to and that these are one of the reasons that he can have another wife .
However my question is would you marry someone like that , knowing that your role in that relationship may in the end be just that of a brood - mare ?
Considering there are other avenues open to the couple like adoption !
well it is very difficult for me to say as i am married. where as if i was un-married and like a 40-year old, maybe i would do it for the sake of getting accepted and having a husband. however, i know i wouldnt be a brood, as i know the husband and i would share intimate moments which would make him love me. very tricky question and happens all the time.
my uncle remarried because his 1st wife didnt give him children. his 2nd wife gave him four. he loves both his wives and treats them so well. dont know how the 1st wife put up with it as she is very old, and 2nd wife is young and beautiful. but 1st wife must be such a great woman with so much patient! dont know how wives share their husbands!
okay my other uncle has been married for 20 years and they have no kids. once his wife asked him to remarry and he didnt talk to her for days because he was so angry! he said he would never take another wife as he can only love his own wife. he said so what if they have no kids, yes he desires them but its not in their kismet. yaar, what a man! what an amazing husband! they do say, love only one in your life and you will be happy.
uff, yaar to be in your bedroom alone while your husband is doing it with his 2nd wife is torture enough! uff, what tension just thinking about it. how would you sleep at night?