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If she is hurt, she can eat more fries and feel good...
I know I should not write this... but can't help it.
She should have replied to him..... "If you keep yourself busy for longer duration in bed, then these fries will not have any effect"....:D
LOL
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Sorry, but Islamically speaking, it is both partners' responsibility to keep themselves well groomed and attractive for their significant other. Its part of the responsibilities of being married. And I find it logical and realistic.
This whole thing of "a man should never tough the subject of weight with his wife and he should always believe she is the most gorgeous woman and he is the luckiest guy in the world to be blessed with her companionship" sounds very fairytale and impractical to me.
YAAAAAAAAAAS!!! Never settle for less.
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Some guys are just jerks.
Yeah, I’m 16. 
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that’s hilarious.
Been there…many many times. My husband has said the same stuff. He says he’s happy with me the way I am (and of course I believe it) but when I try to lose weight he says the same stuff, and well it’s technically true…but I still feel like throwing a book at him just because I don’t wanna hear it. I settle with a 
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Oh come one :)
I was there once my hubby would always reply when confronted ..... who would be more honest to you then me. "Mein nahein bataoon gaa tu koon batae gaa". I used to cry my eyes out. Was young at the time ..... and he never knew how hurt i was and then i said to my self why am i wasting my time over it. Yes he should have been considerate but Men do not know how sensitive we women are on weight issue .... they don't know how sensitive we are PERIOD. I think all men on this forum would agree ..... They don't have a slightest idea !
I was angry with my hubby for his insensitive remarks over dressing and weight issue but slowly i sarted ignoring him but that anger did help me in losing weight ... used that anger positively. :)
My hubby isnt' fat but i was. He was one of those lucky ones who never look old and never look fat :( I was the unlucky one where due to my bone structure and my round face, I would look 5 lbs fatter than i would be. So one day my hubby said he needs to shed some weight ... he is joinnig a group for $ 3000 (yes Dollars) just to loose weight ..... I didn't argue because that is always his big issue that i don't let him make decisions on his own especially financially (I think that he is not mature enough to do that! and his decision proved that but shair kay mun may hath koon dalay) .. but i was angry spending 3000 dollars for just common sense so he started and I challenged him that i will loose more weight then him and without spending money. So i did in 4 months i came down to 126 from 160 :D he lost 15 lbs and he lost the momentum and very lightly said yeh it was wastage of money .... now he is back to his original weight again and I am sticking to mine :)
Point of this whole story is don't waste your energy on small comments that he gave ... he probably didn't think twice about it and if you mention again .... he wont even remmeber the exact whereas you would! that is is US ..... women!! and that is them .... MEN
and they are also stupid ! if you make something a big deal they will also make it a big deal just not they way you would like them to .... so don't mention weight in front of them. They won't know how touchy you are and they won't touch the subject ....
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I think they suit each other, perfectly. Both kids who need to grow up.
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This one is ever better suggestion for her…
Would you be offended?
^ lol