ms ghulail, who implied anything about reflection? I am asking whether you would hide your posts from your spouse/prospective spouse/fiancee because you dont want him to see that side of you.
I wouldn't mind at all :-) Sometimes I get into crazy moods and go into posting frenzies but still I wouldn't mind, I'd be flatterred if he actually bothered to read my zillions of posts :p
yr persistence is intriguing.
lagta hai dono miyan biwi lagai huai hain.
(sorry i got confused by the loving ms.ghulail phenomenon…plus u didnt blast off the first reply… the restraint is equally interesting…so unlike mama…)
I don't know if I would. I've written some stuff here in the past that I don't particularly agree with now. I guess if he wanted to see me evolve, then he could read it. I am a lot more (or was a lot more) full of attitude online than I am in real life.
i'maround, alternately surfin and running after 3 littles ... wassup?
yes, persistant and curious, i really want to know abt this, esp for those with really harsh views, those of you who have beaten on me for being a westerner. I mean I really try to understand and never come down on different cultures but wow have I got beaten on here by those with harsher views. so really i am curious about whether the gals with these harsher views and posts would hide them from their SOs. And as far as Loving ms ghulail phenomenon, i always give respect to those who are asking, replying etc in sincerity rather than in pure hatred like suroor has done....to the point of attacking my babies.
chalo, at least u like the sincerity…tho its difficult to tell how u understood “kahan chali gaeen”…may be i’ll mind telling him may be i wont, depends on what kinda character the guy is, not what i think i shud be like…
Why does it matter how a person (married or single) spends his/her time? To each his own. I wouldn't want people telling me how I should entertain myself, or whether I should go out more or stay indoors.
Anyway, mama, I wouldn't mind if my SO read my threads. I'm the same online as I am offline. Maybe not as open on the board.
my wife used to post here, but then she changed jobs where she could not log on from work, so she stopped posting from work. With other commitments and all, she stopped posting here altogether, but otherwise she knows that I post here, has read my posts and once in a while checks out interesting threads when i recommend them.
My hushand is not interested at all in my posts or i guess my 'online' person but if he wanted to I would not have a prob with him reading anything I write...because I am who I am, in person and on here... My husband hardly makes it to my blog..which often mentions him and not always in the nicest way....
But I agree with you MaMa, there are some posts here which if it was my spouse I would be embarassed.....
well i guess it doesnt apply to me cuz theres not much i can do to hide the stuff i write but even if he didnt know about this place, i would make em read all the crazy things i write cuz even though i am being weird n all n i sometimes wouldnt act liek that in real, it is me, it is me writing these things so yea but then again i wouldtn want like my parents or aunts or uncles to read this stuff i think i had my brother read something i wrote once n hes like ur weird