Wiser and calmer... wisdom and calmness, koe aur lafaz nahi hai? lol
The man must also display assertive leadership qualities along with his wisdom and calmness to keep things going and in check otherwise it would be like a circus.
That brings us back to the point I made about experienced men when it comes to women... the more women you've been with (in marriage :D) the more chances of you having better leadership skills, less hesitant to make tough decisions and take corrective action when things hit the rough road.
now i know what are you trying to prove....to aik successful marriage se pehle 3 ya 4 experiences(marriages) zaroori hain?
No... I was in a bit of a sarcastic mode when I replied to Chorni's post about marrying older man because he may be wiser and calmer... so I said, why not couple that with experience of someone who already married once or twice and see how it goes? :D
Age doesn't make you calmer or wiser, infact it often makes you more insane and restless if things don't turn right in your life. The real test of anybody's calmness or wisdom comes when they are faced with a difficult challenge, young would seek advice from his elders (increasing his chance and options as far as decision making is concerned) while the older guy would make the decision and often in haste.
^lol interesting observation
but yeah I thought every 10 years was a generation.....cause if its 7 then my brother's a different generation than me lol
i think i would, if i knew him and sort of liked him :)
If I was 20 and we were compatible...yes I would consider.
If I was 50 (yes some 50 yr old women do consider re-marriage) and we were compatible...I dont think i would go for it. At that age, the 10-12 yrs age difference is glaring and frightening.
Why are you opposed to having another wife, who'll be like your sister? you seem sooo unhappy.. can I please ask why? :D
Grrr!!!!
I would really like to know how will you ensure that they live like sisters...Especially as you say one of your wives will be a lot younger than you!
