Would that be an appropriate question to ask?

Re: Would that be an appropriate question to ask?

The thing is I am not trying to solve a situation here. I am hmmm just talking.. I guess.
I did not mean they make me feel bad about my self at all.
Its type of delusion some of us temporarily live in.

But get this.
For a long time I thought I was going to be a world-champion. I used to act like it too. Little TOOOOO laid-back, thinking things were gonna come to me eventually.
That did not happen. I am still trying to catch up with things.
At that time I annoyed my loyal friends a lot. They tried to tell me NOT to forget normal/usual life.
But I did.

SO in that context I wanted to know I that ok for us to ask some one how they see them selves.